If you are here, something in a relationship is weighing on you, and that takes courage to face. Relationship choices are the hardest because the facts are mixed up with feelings, history and hope. The quizzes here separate the two: they ask what actually happens day to day, not what you wish would happen.
One rule first: if you feel unsafe with a partner, that is not a hard choice. Talk to someone you trust or a domestic abuse helpline today, and make a plan to be safe.
Not on the list?
Use the decision coach: eight calm questions that work for any choice.
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